4 Tips For Taking Control In Bed

Taking control, or being dominant in the bedroom, can be a very liberating activity. It can bring a couple closer together and can help them explore roles they never imagined were within them. Unfortunately, there are many women who feel too shy or timid about reining in their men, especially in the bedroom.
Dominance is a lot more than just costumes, whips and chains and clichéd phrases like “you’ve been a naughty boy.” It’s more of a state of mind; all you need to be in control is confidence.

Know that your man thinks you’re sexy and use that to get him to do exactly what you want in five easy steps.

1 » Be Assertive:
When your man gets home from work, take him by the hand and lead him into the bedroom or any other room if you’re feeling a bit naughtier. Look him directly in his eyes and tell him how much you want him and that you plan on doing whatever you want. Then push him onto the bed, or other flat surface and tell him to brace himself.

2 » Tease Him:

Once you have him completely in awe, go slow! Take your time with every movement and every touch. Make his body quiver and make him beg for more. You can use your tongue, fingers or anything soft around you to trace his body with. Whisper in his ear and tell him all the naughty things you plan on doing. You get more points if you’re pinning him down while you tease him!

3 » Get on Top:

After you have in an ultimate state of arousal, show him who’s boss by getting on top and straddling him. Men are very visual and love the sight of a girl on top, they also love it when they can watch as you guide them inside of you.

Play a Little Rough:

This is the time to take advantage of the spell you’ve put him under and kick it up a notch. Show him that you’re in a ‘take no prisoners’ kind of mood and be a little more forceful than you usually would be. Grab his neck, pull his hair or run your nails across his chest. Do something he’d never expect and you’ll have him right where you want him.

5 » Tell Him What turns You On:

Finally, after you have quivering, squirming and begging for more, tell him exactly what he needs to do in order to give you an orgasm. This is definitely not the time to be shy! If you’ve always wanted him to do something you’ve been too embarrassed to ask for, this is definitely the moment to get what you want. You’ll both be in ecstasy when you’re done.

M.

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